Asking & Giving Opinion

JUDGMENTAL ISSUES

    In the 21s century, everything becomes easier with the internet. We can share everything we want without any limit. But, is it a good or bad thing? Can people accept it?

Christine       : Look this selebgram gets criticized again. But I think she is not wrong, she just throwing her idea and enjoying her life. What do you think guys about this?

Vanya            : I'm not sure about this selebgram because I never follow her. But I think people nowadays get easily irritated with someone, especially if she or he has a better life.

Torry             : Totally agree, people on the internet for more specific. There are some of them who use the anonymous account and throwing hate for many people. They think they can speak freely because there's no one who can find out who the real person behind that account.

Christine       : Yess, usually they hide behind "This is my rights to speak as a human being". But I think this sentence has a limit. We all have the rights to share our own opinion and idea but if it's hurt someone, it's not a good opinion again.

Vanya            : I feel most of the teenagers nowadays have some judgmental issues. They like to critic someone or nitpicking over something. I just wondering why they do that. What's your take on that?

Torry             : Based on what I see, most of the judgmentalism people just feel jealous. They lack something so they blaming it for another person.

Vanya            : Or maybe they just enjoy gossip. Spilling the tea with her friends in one forum and ended up throwing hate to the subject.

Christine        : I agree with that. I believe there's a reason for them to act like that. Maybe that judgmentalism person never be in the same situation as the subject, so she just throwing what's on her mind without knowing the other's situation. 

Torry              : That's true. Most of us just see from one perspective. We don't really care about others situations or perspective so we ended up being a kind of ignorant person.

Christine        : That's what I want to say Torry

Vanya             : And maybe they lack in self-esteem too, because "The more accepting you are of yourself, the more accepting you will be of others. Conversely, the more rejecting you are of yourself, the more rejecting you will be of others"

Christine        : That's a really cool quote, I'll remember it.

Vanya             : Ahahaah Thank you, dive through the google for more

Torry              : I hope we can judge people in a good way. Because judging is the most important thing to make a relationship in our life. Just how we control our mind to use it.

Christine        : That's true. Self-control is the most important thing in our life.

Vanya             : And don't forget about we are diverse in every part of our life. Accepting others is the key so we will not judge people wrong. 

"It's easy to praise or to blame others for their actions, but unless we know their motivation, we really know nothing at all"

Andy Puddicombe